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How to Be the Happiest Person You Can Possibly Be

How to Be the Happiest Person You Can Possibly Be

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How to be happy and stay happy

Happiness is something that everyone strives for. Sometimes, it can feel like you will never get there, but NEVER, and I mean NEVER give up.

This article is going to help you achieve this.

With the right mindset and strategies, you will achieve true happiness in your life.

We will explore practical tips and strategies that can help you become the happiest person you can possibly be.

How to Be the Happiest Person You Can Possibly Be

Practice gratitude and appreciation

Unfortunately, this is something that a many people don't do.

Have you ever gone out of your way to help someone, only to find that they suddenly distance themselves from you after it is done? This is very frustrating.

Gratitude is a very important part of our lives. It is something that you must never take lightly.

Take time each day to reflect on the things you are grateful for. Show appreciation for the people and experiences that bring you joy. Very often, people you go out of your way to help do not do this with you. But show that you come from much better stock.

Doing this will shift your attitude towards positivity and help you focus on the good things in your life.

Write down the things you are grateful for [VERY IMPORTANT]

How to Be the Happiest Person You Can Possibly Be

Once you start doing this, you will realize that this will be the most powerful thing you have ever done in your life. And when you see the impact it will have on your life, it will bewilder you.

Get a notebook. Every day, write down the 10 things you are most grateful for.

If you have never done something like this, it may be a little hard at first. But here's a good place to start:

If you're breathing, you have something to be grateful for.

Write down the things that matter. These are the things that are important to life, and being happy is your ultimate goal in life.

As an example, I don't recommend that you write down something that is not important, as far as your life is concerned. For example, "You are grateful your favorite team won." Of course, this is your list, and you can write anything you want. This may matter to you today, but in a few days, it will be forgotten. Don't miss the point. As for the important things, they will matter the rest of your life.

I have been doing this for years. It continues to change my life for the better. And I would never recommend something to someone that I wouldn't do myself.

Here are some of the things I am grateful for and have written over the years:

  • I am breathing.
  • I am healthy.
  • I have food to eat.
  • I have a place to sleep and a roof over my head.
  • I have a wonderful family.
  • I have a key that I can turn and enter a place I call home.
  • I am a cancer survivor.

Can you see what is happening here?

You are starting to appreciate the little things. If you can't appreciate the little things, you will never appreciate the big things that come along.

This is why so many people who are successful suddenly lose it all, in a matter of days, hours, and sometimes, minutes.

The people who can't handle success are the people who don't appreciate the little things.

Appreciating the little things will make you humble.

And that's GOOD!

It is very important that you remember this:

When you're humble, you're strong. You are not vulnerable. People can't take it away from you.

People who try to take you down will prey on your vulnerabilities. When you're humble, you are not giving them any ammmunition.

I highly recommend you start doing this right away. It only takes a few minutes a day. You don't necessarily need a notebook. You can do this on your laptop, phone or tablet. The important thing is that you do it.

This will change your life. Believe me! I know! I have been doing this for years.

Make positive relationships and social connections

Associate with positive thinking people. They will motivate you and lift you up. They will help you.

Don't associate with negative thinking people. It is contagious. Some would say it is deadly. You can be nice to them, but just don't engage with them. Get as far away from them as you can, and as fast as you can. People like this can destroy your life. I know for a fact because I've been there. They will HURT you, and I can't make this any clearer.

The people you associate with are essential for overall happiness.

Make an effort to spend time with friends and loved ones, engage in meaningful conversations, and participate in activities that lead to connection.

By nurturing positive relationships and social connections, you can enhance your happiness and create a strong support system.

Take care of your physical and mental health

Engaging in regular exercise, eating a balanced diet, and getting enough sleep are all important for your physical well-being. When you're healthy, YOU"RE HAPPY!

How to Be the Happiest Person You Can Possibly Be

A very good friend of mine passed away about 4 years ago. He was 97.

People who reach their 90's are the most amazing people in the world.

When I heard of his passing, the first thing I remembered was his telling me that he went swimming every day, at the local YMCA. He not only told me about it. He was a fanatic, which I say as a compliment. This affected me in a positive way, because I work out every day, and take it very seriously. I feel great as a result. It is no wonder he reached the age of 97.

Practicing self-care and prioritizing activities that bring you joy and relaxation can greatly improve your mental health. This may include activities such as meditation, journaling (which I introduced to you above), or engaging in hobbies that you enjoy.

Take care of yourself both physically and mentally. If you are healthy, you will be HAPPY!

Set meaningful goals and work towards them

Setting goals gives you something to strive for and can provide a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment when you achieve them.

There is nothing more gratifying than achieving something that you've worked so hard to achieve.

Make sure the goals you set are something you are passionate about. This is what makes them meaningful, and gives you the motivation to achieve them.

As long as you have goals, you will have a purpose in life, and something to live for.

Always have goals to reach. This will make you happy, and give you a reason to get out of bed every morning.

Remember, the journey towards achieving your goals is just as important as the end result, so enjoy the process and embrace the growth and learning that comes with it.

Find purpose and meaning in your life

This gives you a sense of direction and fulfillment, and helps you navigate through life's challenges with resilience and positivity.

Start by reflecting on your values, passions, and interests.

  • What brings you joy and fulfillment?
  • What are the things you like to do that give you this joy and fulfillment?

Once you understand what matters most to you, set goals that align with your values and passions.

These goals will give you a sense of purpose and provide a roadmap for your journey towards happiness. By finding purpose and meaning in your life, you can become the happiest person you can possibly be.


Happiness is very contagious.

If you are with people who are happy, you will be happy. You think the same way.

On the other hand, if you are with people who are miserable, you will be miserable. You think very differently. But you're not going to let this happen. Stay away from these people.

Never let someone kill your dream. The person who tries to do this has no right.

I hope this article has helped you.


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